Once you get past the initial shock of feeling like you are not appreciated, you can remind yourself that self- image has a lot to do with people’s perception of us. You can’t get from other people what you don’t have yourself. Everything seems to reflect whoever we are. If you have the courage to reveal your true self, then others will feel comfortable with you. They will find that you are a reliable reflection.
Part of going lightly is learning not to try and control the outcome of every situation. Apply higher values and allow them to work for you. Everyone has a good astrological chart if it is applied on a higher level. When we descend to the physical and insist on a particular outcome, we interfere with higher influences. Let go.