Be careful who you play “gotcha” with. These things have a way of coming unglued very quickly. You think you have cornered someone only to find that there is some delusional thinking that you weren’t anticipating. Further, you may find that there are additional unintended consequences.
For every action is a reaction. It is a good idea to know what that reaction is going to be in advance. Just like lawyers at trial….never ask a question you don’t already know the answer to. Well, I can only imagine the anger that wells up in these situations. When you get something you weren’t counting on.
That reminds me of yet another thought. I never ask “what it is that people want from me” but rather “what is it that they want to give me”. This thought is amusing to me but experience has taught me that there are a lot of sore losers out there.
Personally, I don’t have time for “gotcha” nor am I at all interested. I like to see justice done but I am wise enough to know that it is out of my hands. Really, I believe in divine justice but it isn’t swift enough. That is why we have courts of law where justice is not always served either.
To make a long story short, it is really aggravating to lose. No matter who you are or whether you are right or wrong …no one likes losing.
But, get over it…you are not defined by your winnings and losings but rather you are defined by your deeds both good and bad.