Sometimes getting what we want can be an awesome experience of both a good and bad nature. We always think we know what we need and go about using our intelligence and ingenuity to get it. But we don’t see the big picture. As human beings, we are not able to. Still we can always make the best out of the opportunities that come our way.
“Men are not the creatures of circumstances, but circumstances are the creatures of men” – Benjamin Disraeli
The best thing to do is to follow your head and your heart when it comes to making decisions. There are many roads to choose from and we can only make our best effort to create a harmonious experience. All things are good and bad at the same time. It is all in the way you look at it.
You also must learn to be your own friend. Don’t beat yourself over the head if things don’t go exactly as planned. Be kind to yourself and be kind to others. Be the master of yourself and not of other people.