Today a great deal of emphasis is placed on exercise, eating the right foods and meditation. All of these mind body enhancements are great but it seems that one thing is glaringly missing from the formula and that thing is “right thinking.” Having the right thinking is something over time that we arrive at. But, there are opportunities to accelerate your wisdom. One way is to listen to people who have had these experiences.
It is easy to discount experienced people’s advice as not being au courant, but really, I think there is something to be gained by a little indulgence. Many things are apparent from my years of being in the workplace but a lot of my insights come from my study of astrology.
Astrology is a soft science, based on observation. It is the repetition of something playing itself out over and over with similar results. At first, the patterns are not so obvious, but, as you continue to observe things it becomes oh so familiar.
Clearly, there are a few things that are definite do’s and don’ts in your personal approach.
The first thing is; Don’t allow your ego to dictate your behavior. Put your ego in your back pocket or in your handbag. Somewhere that it isn’t easily accessible. This prevents you from revealing how thin skinned you are.
The second thing is; Do your best to make the other person comfortable. Allow yourself to be predictable. People will feel much more generous toward you if they can guess what you are going to do next.
The third thing is; You don’t have to always be right. Lots of people are “dead right” but in the end, it doesn’t get them anywhere.
Just these three things can give you a boost in your quest to get what you have worked long and hard for. Give yourself a chance to succeed by having the right thinking.