Now is a good time to replace some old concepts with some new ones. Get rid of what hasn’t been working and at least try something new. Don’t keep beating that dead horse. Sometimes we try things for years with no apparent success. We think if we keep trying that it will work and this thinking can persist for years. I know because I am guilty of it, too.
Get a grip. It isn’t good to waste time. We have precious little of it, no matter how long we live. It’s easy to put things on the back burner and never get around to bringing them to the front where they can be dealt with. There is no time like the present.
You may feel like burning some bridges. This is ill advised especially since you are so close to getting what you want. No sense telling it like it is especially since no one has asked. If they haven’t been interested in your opinion up until now, don’t bother to waste your breath. Especially since the door is so close.
Certain situations may trigger the memory of old emotional situations. Be aware that they may encourage bad behavior on your part. Don’t fall into the trap. Keep silent and people will think you are a wise person.