Just the facts, if only this were possible. We spend most of our lives living with small pieces of the puzzle. Our puzzle piece connects us to other people’s puzzle piece and so on it goes. We are locked into a position that we may or may not be that happy with. As human beings we are locked in our unconscious. So the question is, “how do we access free will?” Our free will lies in our ability to change ourselves. By changing ourselves, we change the way that other people communicate with us.
Procrastination is a technique used to delay making any decisions that can move us ahead. We choose to stay with the familiar as it doesn’t create anxieties that we fear we can’t cope with. Anxiety is practically impossible to avoid but it is much more manageable when we give it some direction. By giving direction it cuts down on the amount of paralysis that we feel when we are under a great deal of pressure. Really we are just trying to balance our nature.
You may feel like you would just like something permanent that you can count on. You would like some form of security that won’t be taken away. This does seem like a reasonable request except that change is the real stabilizer. It’s the flow of ideas and energy that give you confidence and security. Money is known as “frozen energy”. It doesn’t provide the kind of security that is stabilizing, although, you need it. You are balancing yourself against the many demands that life makes on you. Bring yourself life.